He tangata takitahi te tangata takitahi, ahakoa kei reira etahi e tohu ana ki te ahua o te hunga whakaheke, te whakakore i nga ahuatanga takitahi i roto io ratou whanonga. Engari he mea nui kia mohio kei te tika, kei te tika hoki te moni . Kia whai whakaaro ano tatou ki te momo tuatahi.
Tuhinga o mua
Ki te korero i roto i te reo matatini, ko tenei ahuatanga o te moni hei waahi e whakapumau ana mo ia takitahi he kaupapa matua mo o raatau ake hiahia ki runga i nga painga o te iwi whanui me etahi atu taangata. Mo te pai ake o te whakaaro, kia taatauhia tenei kaupapa e te tauira o te wahine i makahia e te hoa aroha.
Na, ka haere mai ia ki te kite i te kaimätai hinengaro me te mea i te tuatahi o te huihuinga e ui ana ki a ia: "He aha te mahi ina mohio koe kaore te tangata i tukino ia koe, e mohio ana koe ki to whakaaro kaore he aroha, ka mamae te wairua ? "Ko te whakautu he mea ohie: kia whakauru i roto i to ngakau te mahi o te whaiaro hauora, ara, kaua ki te tangi pouri, me te whakaheke i te roimata me o kilokaraka, me mahara koe ki to hoa aroha. reo ke, whakahou i to kakahu, kaua e kati ahakoa i te wa ano mai i te korerorero ki etahi atu.
No reira, he mea nui kia kite i te kaupapa o te mahi moni he mea rite te tikanga koura i waenganui i te whaiaro me te mana .
Ina kite te wahine i te kaupapa o te mahi moni mai i nga ra tuatahi o tana mohio ki ta ia i whiriwhiri ai, ka puta mai i roto ia ia te ahua o taua kawenga ka puta mai i te wa e koa ana te wahine ki tana whakaaetanga ki te whakatairanga i tana hari i te marena.
He mea nui kia mahara kia hiahia koe ki te tuku i tetahi tangata ki a koe. Kia ngoikore, kia kore e taea e koe. Whakauruhia te whaiaro hauora. I roto i te whanaungatanga me te kaha o tenei ao, kia arahina tenei ariā. Aroha atu koe ki a koe ake i to hoa. Ka aroha tou hoa ki a koe i te aroha tino kaha, ka whakaatu koe i taua aroha ki a koe.