He aha te mea e hiahiatia ana e koe mai i te tangata i whanau i raro i te awangawanga o Cancer, i te mea he tautohetohe? He tane tino koroheke te mate. E tino hiahia ana ratou i roto i to raatau ao me te hiahia hoki ki o raatau whanaungatanga ki nga wahine, na reira ka mohio tona hoa whiriwhiri he taumaha tino taimaha me te taimaha e whakanohoia ana ki runga i ona pokohiwi mehemea ka whakatau ia ki te here ia ia ki te tangata-mate.
Ko te tohutohu a te kaimätai hinengaro mo te whakahoki i te tangata-Cancer
Ko te uiuinga nui mehemea ka taea te whakahoki i te tane Cancer. Mena he painga te waahi i roto i te whanaungatanga ki te kino o te wahine, na te tangata i hoki mai, me mahara te wahine ki nga whaanui nui.
Tuatahi, i muri i te tautohetohe, kaore he tane whakarongo ki te wahine i hara ki a ia. Me hoatu e tatou he wa ki a ia ki te whakamamae i te iti me te haere mai ki a ia ano.
Tuarua, kaua tetahi e korero tika ki a ia. He mea tika ki te korero ki tona hoa tata, hoa, kia kawea e ratou ki a ia te rongo e hiahia ana tana kaumea ki te korero ki a ia tino.
Me pehea te whakahoki mai i te tangata-Cancer i muri i te wehenga roa?
Ko tetahi atu tohutohu ngawari. I roto i te korerorero ki tetahi tangata kano, kaore he waahanga o te korero teka, no te mea ko nga tangata i whanau i raro i tenei tohu he tino raruraru ki te tinihanga. Na, ki tenei korero, me kaha te mahi a te kotiro.
Mena ka pakaru tonu te tokorua, kaore e taea e koe te waiho i tetahi tangata-Cancer mo te wa roa. Mena kei te tino whakaaro koe ki te whakahoki mai i te tane Cancer i muri i te wehenga, me mohio koe me kii koe i tetahi tangata ki te korero, ki te whakamarama ki a ia i te ahuatanga, me te whakamarama i te korero ka tono koe mo te murunga ka kore koe e mahi. He pai ake te mahi i tenei i tetahi waahi motuhake, ka whakaaroarohia nga korero o te hui. He tino ngawari te tipu o te kiripuaki, a, ki te aroha te tangata - murua.